On camping, needs and wants

Each September, since before the boy was born, the hubs and I go on a 'camping' vacation to my sister-in-laws trailer, which is equipped with all the necessities and many luxuries including a full canopy cover and both an indoor and an outdoor TV.

Although in the past its always been dreary and wet, this year we have been blessed with an Indian Summer and bountiful sunshine.  So much that by the late afternoon the boy isn't interested in playing in the park, he'd rather sit in the air conditioned trailer and relax with his new friend 'Diego'.

The few other kids around the trailer park are constantly asking if the boy can come and play, but given that the boy is much younger than these kids, generally dislikes playing with other kids and doesn't particularly like people in his personal space this seemed a bit surprising.  That is until my mother-in-law pointed out the obvious.  These kids aged anywhere from five to thirteen don't want to play with my two and a half year old son, they want to play with the toys he brings to the park.

One little boy remarked 'wow, he has a lot of toys' when he brought a bucket, a shovel and 3 cars to the park.  This made me wonder how few toys this little five year old actually had.  But when his eight year old sister explained to me that you can get money for returning pop bottles and cans and that their family was collecting all the cans they could because money was tight, I felt bad about taking the toys away from them when we left the park.

Situations like this leave me sad and a little confused; I'm sad because I wish that all children could live a life without struggle, where all their needs are easily met.  I want my children to have everything they need and some of the things they want, but without the sense of entitlement that often accompanies affluence.  That being said, I grew up poor and I truly believe that I am better off because of it; that I understand the value of money, the cost of food and the difference between what I want and need. All things I want for my children.

So I'm left wondering, how exactly do we walk the line between desire and survival, effectively teaching our children to value what they have and to work for what they want?

#Mompact Bloghop: Highchair Organizer Giveaway

Its no secret that I believe in Mom's supporting other Mom's; I am particularly proud to support those mothers with the drive and passion to become entreupeneurs, so when the opportunity arose to participate in a blog hop showcasing mompreuners from across the nation, I jumped on the opportunity.  The Mompact bloghop includes 150 product giveaways, each one created by a busy mom with a bright idea.

Here at the Momma Stuff Blog, we are giving away a Highchair Organizer; designed to be attached to most highchairs or booster seats in a mere ten seconds this innovative product has enough space to hold, dishes, cutlery, washcloths, bibs and bottles alike.

Our dining room table is around the corner from the kitchen, so having all our feeding supplies close at hand but out of the way is more than just a little bit appealing.  As an added bonus, this durable product (designed to be wiped clean with a damp soapy cloth) can easily be folded and transported, regardless whether you're going for dinner at grandma and grandpa's or off for a playdate with a friend.

I hope you have the time to check out all the great blogs, products and giveaways being showcased in the Mompact Bloghop, but even if you don't have time to check out all 120 participating blogs, make sure you stop by the

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Closet Purge

I'm the first to admit that I'm a bit of a slob; I don't live in filth, but left to my own devices I tend to revert to a (somewhat) organized mess. Although this is not one of my best traits, and far from the hubs favourite, I've always been up front and honest about my messiness. When we first started dating, I never pretended I was neat, when we first moved in together I never pretended that I was going to keep the clean and tidy, and it certainly wasn't part of our wedding vows, so I feel only a small amount of guilt about my general lack of domesticity in the cleaning department.

All that being said, its one thing to admit my ability to tune out clutter, but its a whole other thing to show you the breadth of my messiness.  There is only one small space in our home that is uniquely mine; the walk through closet, and for months, this is what it's looked like.

YES, the pile of (clean) clothes on top of my dresser far surpasses the height of my sister.

YES, my bras and underwear are literally oozing out of my dresser drawer.

YES, the whole dresser is likely a safety hazard for my two and a half year old.

The need to clean and purge is obvious, however the drive and organization to do so were sorely lacking, but with a lot of prodding, help and bribery (in the form of Popsicles and gluten-free cake) from my sister, we managed to remove five garbage bags of clothes that were too small, misshapen, stained or just plain ugly from my wardrobe.  I mean seriously, did I really need to keep knee high Eyeore socks in my drawer for years, just because someone gave them to me?

This much needed effort left me with a very small pile of clothes that fit me and an empty wardrobe closet.  Fortunately the hubs was so satisfied by my efforts that I was rewarded with a shopping trip to round out my wardrobe. 

I admit that I'm scared that I won't be able to keep this up and that in time my beautiful looking closet will slowly turn back into a big unorganized mess, but hopefully with a little willpower and continual help from my sister, my closet will continue to look a little bit more like this.

 

Are you super organized, or not so much?  Either way, what are your tricks and tips for keeping your closet under control?

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My apologies for my lack of online presence over the past week, I am having some network issues with my internet service provider and my modem keeps dropping the line (apparently close to 100x before 10am).  I'm hoping to have the issue resolved soon.

If you have a moment and a stinky diaper pail, garbage pail or kitty litter, check out our LOW ENTRIES NaturzAire Baby Giveaway, or if you just want your kids (or grandkids) to walk in style, check out our Skechers Hot Lights / Twinkle Toes Giveaway!

Skechers Hot Lights | Review & Giveaway

When I was a kid, summer was way too long, I was a bit dorky and during two months I was left to my own devices I spent a lot of time riding my bike to the library and a longing for September to arrive.

Aside from school starting back up, the other perk of summer ending was 'Back to School Shopping'.  We were a family of five living on a single, self-employed income, so budgets were tight, but we always got a little bit of money to buy a few key wardrobe items including a pair of runners for the new year.

If you are still looking for shoes that will satisfy your little ones need for style and excitement and your need for value and quality construction, check out Skechers Hot Lights for boys and Skechers Twinkle Toes for girls.

Being a mother of boys, I had the chance to review the Hot Lights, Manifold equipped with both LED headlights and running lights and I'm certain any car-obsessed little man is going to love them.  From a parents perspective, the lights are not too bright and distracting and the shoes are laced with bungees and secured with velcro making them easy to pull on and off.

From a construction point of view, Skechers Hot Lights are made of synthetic overlain leather, a cushioned insole and a wraparound flexible rubber traction outsole.  As you may know, I'm a firm believer in buying a single pair of quality shoes for my kids, I refuse to buy into the consumerism that more is better and at $53 a pair Skechers Hot Lights meets my need for quality while catching the attention of my little racer.

We're giving away a pair of Skechers Hot Lights or Twinkle Toes to one lucky Momma Stuff Blog reader, check out the Rafflecopter after the jump to enter!

NaturzAire Baby - All Natural Deodorizer | Review & Giveaway

 Whenever I tell someone that I use diaper service with my boys, they inevitably ask about the smell and I truly believe that with proper cleaning and maintenance, your diaper pail can keep smells 'locked in'.  That being said, when you pop the lid open to drop a new diaper in, the smell isn't all that pleasant, particularly at the end of the week.

Being the 'greenie' that I am, I hate most air fresheners; on principle infusing the air with chemicals to mask an unpleasant odour just seems wrong to me.  So when I was offered the opportunity to try out NaturzAire Baby, a natural alternative that attracts and traps odours I jumped on the opportunity.

NaturzAire is made of volcanic material that is completely reusable, recharegable and contained within a small organic cotton pouch.

And it works.

When I placed the small pouch on top of my diaper bin, there was a noticeable decrease in odour, the only trouble I've had is finding a way to secure it to the diaper bin, so the boy doesn't pick it up and toss it around the room.  Currently, duct tape is doing the job; however I caution you, don't duct tape it on the inside of the lid or you may end up wading through dirty diapers to find it like I did. 

How it works, scientifically speaking, is actually quite simple.  Odours have a positive charge and are attracted to the negative charge in the NaturzAire granules, which are able to trap the odours inside millions of tiny cavities.  After a few months, you simply need to leave your NaturzAire pouch in the sun for a day or microwave it on medium heat for 5 minutes to release all the trapped odours and moisture.

Want to try out NaturzAire for yourself?  We're giving away a NaturzAire Baby deodorizer to one Momma Stuff Blog Reader; check out the Rafflecopter after the jump to enter.

'Low & Slow' Kale Chips | Recipe

Full of vitamin C, beta-carotene, calcium and antioxidants its no surprise that Kale is often touted as a superfood.  My mom always told me the darker the green, the healthier the vegetable and kale certainly lives up to her expectations.

Healthy however, does not always equal delicious, particularly when it comes to thick leafy greens like kale and although I'll admit that I didn't love my attempt at a kale smoothie, kale chips are amazing.  In fact both the boy and the hubs (who initially told me kale was only good for lining deli cases) gobble them up whenever I make them.

There are many recipes for kale chips available online and they are all very similar.  Unfortunately, virtually none of them worked for me.  Perhaps I don't have the precision required to cook these greens at high temperatures; every time I tried, no matter how many times I checked on them, they tasted burnt.  In fact, I was so disappointed in my attempts, I almost gave up, but instead I decided to try the 'low and slow' method and was ecstatic with the results.

Light, crispy, salty and delicious, kale chips are a total hit at our house.

You can play around with both the shape and saltiness of your chips, I've seen beautiful photos of long skinny 'chips', but I prefer small bite size pieces.  Not only are they easier to make, the boy has a tendency to crush at least a few pieces, which leaves kale shrapnel all over him, the high chair and the floor and quite simply, smaller pieces equal less mess.

'Low and Slow' Kale Chips

Ingredients:

• 1/2 bunch of kale
• Grapeseed or Olive oil
• Sea Salt

Directions:

1. Preheat oven to 250F.
2. Place the kale upside down and separate the leafy greens from the central rib.
3. Tear the leafy greens into bite size pieces and place on a cookie sheet.
4. Sprinkle greens with oil and toss until all the pieces are lightly coated.
5. Sprinkle oiled greens with sea salt and toss the greens again then spread out evenly on the baking sheet.  For best results minimize overlap of kale.
6. Bake for 20 minutes or until greens are light and crispy, if the greens start to turn a light brown colour they are burning, remove them from the oven immediately.
7. Enjoy!

Mission More Milk

I want to start off by saying thank you for all of the support, encouragement and suggestions that I received on the blog, Facebook and Twitter regarding my milk supply.  As always, you were full of useful advice, not all that different from what my health nurse provided. 

• More Rest = More Milk
• More Nursing = More Milk
• Good Nutrition = More Milk
• More Water = More Milk

Unfortunately for me, things were not quite so straightforward for me.

• More Rest?  With a 2.5 year old and a 4 month old, when exactly is that supposed to happen?
• More Nursing?  We've been nursing close to every 2 hours for a month and there's less milk, not more.  I had a similar experience with the boy and ended up losing my hair in clumps as my body tried, unsuccessfully, to provide enough milk to keep up with his fervent appetite.
• Good Nutrition? Despite the lack of gluten and dairy in my diet, I eat well and I eat regularly.  Three meals a day plus snacks.  Seriously, you could set a clock by my stomach and when I'm at work, we do.
• More Water?  I had been slacking a bit on this, because in my current sleepy state I had started replacing my water with (decaffeinated) coffee; but I'm on it now and the water consumption is back on track.

After much discussion, my nurse to recommend that I get a prescription for domperidone, to help increase my milk supply.

I've been on the medication for about 4 days now and I'm happy to share that there has been no formula for the last 2 days and the baby has resumed his routine of a 6 hour evening sleep followed by a quick feed and another 4 hours of sleep.  Thank goodness. With the milk comes sleep and as much as the baby is in need of milk, I am in need of sleep.